It has been a month since Ummi started working and live with Adi in Labuan. Fuuhh...mmg cabaran. Ummi tabik la semua single mother. Mmg hebat. Ummi yg baru experience sebulan jadi single mother pun rasa mcm kelam kabut. Hopefully this is only temporary. Please pray that we could live together (Adi, Ayah & Ummi) again ASAP.
Alhamdulillah, kat Labuan, we live with our landlord. So, ada la jugak org nak tlg jenguk2kan Adi if Ummi nak pegi tandas. And kadang2 tuan rumah ajak skali makan ngan family dia. But most of the time during weekdays, lepas isyak ummi dah keletihan dan hanya akan lepak dlm bilik melayan adi main sampai la adi nak tido. Hihi....Adi sekarang makin suka nak main. Sampai dah menguap byk kali and mata dah layu pun nak main gak. Tu yang kadang2 Adi sampai jadi cranky sbb keletihan.
Babysitter plak, it took Adi 2 weeks to get use to her. Every morning, he will immediately scream when he was handed over to the babysitter. Ada jugak beberapa kali, bila kereta berenti je depan rumah babysitter, Adi dah nampak resah and mcm nak nangis. Jeritannya mcm kene dera. Sayu Ummi dengar, rasa mcm tak nak pegi keje. Biarla Ummi yang jaga. Tp skrg alhamdulillah Adi dah ok. Jumpe makcik pun dah senyum2. But still, Ummi rasa sayu and meleleh air mata everytime tinggalkan Adi.
Skrg Ummi balik kerja pun on time. Selalu tak sabar nak balik jumpa Adi. Everyday jugak, to make us feel at home, we will call Ayah and the rest of the family. Sampai dah puas bercakap, baru letak telefon.
In terms of daily schedule, everyday Ummi will wake up around 3am - 4am to wash Adi's diapers and bottles. Tp ada gak beberapa kali terbabas bila dah letih sgt. Kalo sempat tido balik before subuh, dpt la Ummi tido jap. Kalo terlambat siap keje and Adi bangun awal, tak dpt la Ummi nak take nap before pegi keje. Mmg memenatkan. That's why Ummi mmg tabik la mak2 yang kene jaga anak sorang2. Ye la, time baby berjaga, kene jaga baby. Time baby tido, blom tentu bole tido. Kene buat keje yang tertangguh.
Ayah Adi, being so understanding and helpful, sgt membantu Ummi masa Ayah dtg Labuan jenguk Adi and Ummi. Dpt la Ummi rehat sket. Makan pun ayah tak bagi Ummi masak. *thanks a lot Ayah.
Apa2pun, it is not easy to raise a child on your own. Ya Allah, bantulah kami agar kami dpt tinggal bersama semula sebagai satu keluarga. Amin.
Doakan kami ye.
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